By Admin
In a strong push to combat Sexual and Gender-Based Violence (SGBV) and strengthen child protection efforts, the Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA) has charged fathers to take a more active role in the lives of their daughters, warning that absence, silence and emotional neglect can leave children vulnerable to abuse.
The call was made during a fatherhood sensitisation programme organised by the Agency's Community Engagement Department, in partnership with the Daddy's Girl Project, at Ikoyi Senior Grammar School, Lagos, where 70 fathers gathered to learn how responsible parenting can serve as a powerful tool against violence and abuse.
Held under the theme, "Promoting Responsible, Present and Protective Fathers," the engagement placed the spotlight on a critical but often overlooked reality: fathers are not only providers, but also protectors, mentors and the first line of defence against abuse.
Representing the Executive Secretary of DSVA, Mrs. Titilola Vivour-Adeniyi, the Head of Community Engagement, Mr. Damilare Adewusi, challenged participants to rethink the traditional view of fatherhood and embrace a more intentional role in raising daughters.
"The presence of a father in a child's life can significantly influence her confidence, sense of security and overall well-being," he said on behalf of the Executive Secretary.
"As fathers, your role extends beyond providing for your families. You are protectors, mentors and role models whose actions and words help shape the future of your children. By being present, intentional and supportive, fathers can play a critical role in preventing abuse and raising confident, resilient young girls."
The event featured thought-provoking sessions led by child protection advocates and parenting experts who examined the far-reaching impact fathers have on their daughters' lives.
Facilitator Ms. Ramat Balogun-Lamidi stressed that a father's influence can shape a girl's self-worth, her understanding of healthy relationships and her willingness to speak up when faced with abuse.
Adding to the conversation, renowned Parenting Coach, author and host of the Manhood Radio Show, Mr. Kingsley Obom-Egbulem, urged fathers to move beyond the mindset that financial provision alone defines good parenting.
According to him, daughters thrive when fathers provide emotional support, listen without judgment, build trust and maintain open channels of communication.
Participants engaged in frank conversations on toxic masculinity, harmful social norms and the consequences of emotional absenteeism. Through interactive exercises and personal reflections, many fathers shared experiences and explored practical ways to become more involved in their daughters' daily lives.
The discussions also highlighted the need for fathers to challenge harmful gender stereotypes, model healthy behaviour and create safe spaces where girls feel valued, respected and empowered to speak without fear.
The atmosphere at the close of the programme was one of reflection and renewed commitment, as participants collectively pledged to become more present, protective and purposeful fathers.
The initiative forms part of DSVA's broader strategy to prevent violence before it occurs by strengthening families, promoting healthy relationships and empowering parents to play an active role in safeguarding children.
E-signed,
Onadipe Opebere
Head, Public Affairs Unit
Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Agency (DSVA)
27 October 2026.
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