“I was a full-time housewife and my husband
had just lost his job,” she narrated. “We were literarily struggling to put
food on the table and pay all the bills. Survival was difficult. I wasn’t on
any family planning method and we already had three children spaced less than
two years apart and the eldest was barely 6, so another pregnancy was simply
out of the question.”
“I did not even tell my husband I was
pregnant. I knew if I did, he would try to convince me to keep it. For me
though, the decision was made as soon as I heard that I was pregnant and I just
went all out and terminated it on my own.”
But Comfort did not immediately makeup
her mind how the unwanted pregnancy as to be terminated. Over the next few
weeks, she pondered over the issue and finally settled for an unsafe abortion
through the use of certain "pills" and "tablets" to
initiate a crude medical abortion of the growing fetus.
“I bought the pills and some other
recommended medicines that I was told were efficient in inducing abortion. I
took them at home early one morning and started bleeding soon afterward.
“The bleeding became so much and I felt
a bit of pain, but by the evening of the next day, everything had subsided. My
husband did not even suspect anything but I later told him everything a few months
afterward.
“He was very surprised and rather angry
with me but appealed that I should never to try such a thing again. I promised
and I am now on a
reliable contraceptive.”
The home is important in the
reproductive health story of women in Nigeria. Women get pregnant at home, give
birth at home and often induce abortion at home.
Medical abortion actually brings access
to safe abortion closer home. All over the country, all classes, women with
unwanted pregnancies seek access to safe termination processes across the city
women can easily purchase a wide range of drugs without a prescription to bring on
their wayward periods.
Like
Comfort, millions of Nigerian women experience unwanted pregnancies and resort
to unsafe termination with the associated health. Experts say one of the reasons
Nigerian women often turn to abortion is to avoid unwanted births.
“The
provision of family planning counseling and information could substantially
reduce the incidence of unwanted pregnancy and induced abortion in Nigeria,”
said Prof Adetokunbo Fabamwo, a Consultant Gynaecologist and the Chief Medical Director,
Lagos State University Teaching Hospital, Ikeja,
Lagos.
Among
other factors are the fear of isolation and rejection, employment
policies, ignorance, completed family, too young or too old.
Nmezi, who spoke about how
barriers to reproductive health care and services affect women’s lives, said the law on abortion in Nigeria was too restrictive and should be reviewed.
“For some, it is simple and straight forward, for others, it is difficult and complex,” she asserted.
“For some, it is simple and straight forward, for others, it is difficult and complex,” she asserted.
In a
study conducted by the Guttmacher Institute, almost a third of the women said
they had undergone at least one unwanted pregnancy. About half of them admitted
having attempted to end their last unwanted pregnancy.
Speakers
at the forum agreed that at least every other woman who seeks an abortion does so
because they are not married, are too young or are still in school. Of the
women not practicing contraception when they had the unwanted pregnancy, a number are unaware of family planning, and about 1 in 5 either have no access
to contraceptive services, or the services are too expensive or they’re afraid
of side effects.
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